Sistar - Alone
Shit’s been stuck in my head forever.
There’s so many problems about myself.. I don’t even know where to start.
I’m jealous of those relationships where the parents are all for teenage love. Growing up in a traditional Asian family has shown me the drastic differences between forbidden love and all-for-it love. You see, I wish just for once I could fall in love with someone without sneaking around my parents. I wish I didn’t have to lie just to spend time with someone I really care about. For once, I wish that my parents could see how valuable teenage love could be without being such realists. True, odds are, teenage love doesn’t last, but I’m not interested in finding “the one” as much as I am in finding people I can learn from and grow with. Some parents don’t see the potential of growth one finds in such a blind relationship.
And then there are those parents that are like Regina George’s “cool mom” who pop their heads into your room while you’re making out with your significant other asking if you’d like a condom. Just kidding. But honestly, I have friends that pay for the hotel rooms after Prom because they trust their children won’t do anything stupid.
I don’t even want that. I just want parents who invite my boyfriend over for dinner. I want them to include him into the family, and make jokes with him, and I want them to show him my baby pictures, and let me see him every weekend, and act as if he is one of their own. Honestly, I just want a relationship where I don’t have to worry about planning what time I’ll sneak out. Why can’t love be as simple as first grade math?
(Source: drewtrinnh, via ariclecious)
- my past get in the way of us being together now.
- the stories about what happened back then make you doubt us.
- other people get involved in our relationship.
- old feelings for someone you used to be with come back.
- another person come along & steal you away from me.
we don’t get to choose who we fall for. They may mistreat us, ignore us or hurt us, but we stay with them. Why? It’s not because we’re stupid or we enjoy getting hurt, It’s because we can see the good in them, it’s because despite all the arguments, they are the ones who make us feel a certain way that no one else can & we value that feeling, & because our brains won’t allow them to leave our minds, & our hearts won’t allow them to leave our lives.
(Source: tedeezy)
Don’t try to flirt. Don’t try to mess them up. There’s so many fucking fishes in the sea, why the hell would you wanna mess with one that’s already been caught?
